Checks to the Bucket List….

Bucket Lists are like fingerprints, we all have them.  And like fingerprints, there are probably no two alike.

Over the past few years I have been checking off a few of the items on my list.

I went sky diving.

I rode a quarter-mile zip line over a deep ravine between a mountain range.

I wanted to hold political office and thanks to the people of Lake Park, Florida, I had that opportunity.

Believe it or not, I have even run a half marathon.

This summer, I am seeing a concert at Red Rocks Amphitheater in Colorado.

I have many more items to check off my list, but this weekend I marked off one of my biggies.

Since I was a child I have been a fan of figure skating, I don’t know why, I just love it.

I remember where I was when Dorothy Hamill won her gold.  I remember Linda Fratianne, Katarina Witt, Debbie Thomas and every other woman to win a national, world or Olympic title.

I cheered when Scott Hamilton leapt to Olympic Gold and cried when he was diagnosed with cancer.  I wanted to be Brian Boitano, he was my hero during the Calgary Battle of the Brians.

Paul Wylie and Michelle Kwan made my heart soar.

Yes, ice skating has been a passion for many years.

Back in the summer I decided to check off another item on my list…….  I purchased tickets to the United States Figure Skating Championships in Kansas City, Missouri.

After months of anticipation, I arrived in town on Friday and have been in skater mecca all weekend.

Just approaching the arena gave me a rush of adrenaline and when I first saw the ice, I have to admit, I got a bit of a lump in my throat.


Over a weekend of skating, I have seen the joys of victory, the fall of champions, the determination of finely tuned athletes and the free-spirited abandon of kids who had nothing to lose and everything to gain.

My trip to Kansas City has been a success.

When you are sitting in the same seats all weekend around the same group of people, you get to know them and their stories.

I met a lady who lives 50 miles from my house, she was there fulfilling her bucket list too.  There was the couple who go to the US Championships every year, their bucket list is to see an Olympic final.

Many of my skating idols of the past were at the Championships and it was fun to see them.  I met present day coaches and skaters and I made some new friends.

I’m glad I checked this item off the list, the next time I go to the Championships, it won’t be Bucket List, it will just be continued love!

I still need to see the sunrise over the Grand Canyon, write and see published the novel,  I want to do my Alaskan Cruise sooner rather than later, I want to cheer on competitors at the IRONMAN World Championships in Hawaii and swim the Great Barrier Reef off the coast of Australia.

My list grows constantly and I enjoy striking items off the list.  One of the things I have learned in life is, it is too short not to dream and strive to make those dreams come true, I’ll keep doing just that!

Life’s Playlist…. Rise UP by Andra Day

For my friends in Florida who have been, and continue to be, affected by Hurricane Matthew.  RISE UP and know your backs are covered!

Love to all……..

Life’s Playlist….. Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me by Gladys Knight

Life’s Playlist…. Believe by Cher, Dedicated to a Goddess

A friend was recently diagnosed with ovarian and peritoneal cancer.

She is a vibrant, funny, intelligent woman who I served with on the Lake Park Town Commission.

I learned during our years on the Commission that she is a FIGHTER and she is already proving that in this latest battle.

Tonight, she will be hosting  “Henna Goddess Night” where she will “crown” her now bald head with a beautiful henna crown of hope and healing.

I think a Goddess crown is the perfect accessory for my friend Patti and I know that it will be a comforting accompaniment through this journey.

Most of my friends know that my goddess is Cher, so Patti, from one goddess to another…. BELIEVE in your healing and keep fighting!


Life’s Playlist….. Greatest Love of All by Whitney Houston

A friend posted this pic last night from his Timeline memories.  The pic was dated February 11, 2012.

What started out as a night of friends and cocktails turned into an impromptu “wake” for Whitney Houston.

As we drank more and more cocktails, we sang more and more Whitney.

Sad how someone with so much promise and talent could just throw it all away with drugs.


A lot has changed since the night this pic was taken, most of it for the best.  It was a fun night, one of many I experienced around that table.