Every class has one, that special person that lit up a room when they entered. For the Rabun County High School Class of 1982, that person was BJ Southards.
A striking beauty, with her long blonde locks, BJ could have easily been one of the mean girls, but she was anything but.
With an impish grin, BJ could melt anyone’s heart and she displayed kindness to everyone. As a cheerleader, she epitomized Wildcat Spirit, and her quirky jokes could make even the most serious situation light-hearted.
BJ was my friend, but she was also everyone’s friend. She treated us like family and her sweet spirit was always on display.
Growing up, I can honestly say I never saw BJ “have a bad day,” and most certainly can’t think of anyone who didn’t simply love her.
BJ was loved by her classmates and teachers alike, BJ was just one of those people.
I haven’t seen BJ since we were in our mid-20’s, but when I think of her, I still remember her as vividly as the last day I saw her. Beautiful, smiling and lighting up the room.
Sadly, life wasn’t kind to BJ in her later years, but today, she sings with angels and her smile and youthful spirit has been returned to her in heaven.
Every class has one and yesterday we lost ours, God bless you BJ and thank you for being a light. You will be missed and remembered as a friend to all.
Notes from a Southern Kitchen 
Ken, I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face……. What a beautiful tribute to my loving sister. She would light up a room with her smile and boy did she love her family and friends! She is singing with the angels and smiling that beautiful smile. Thank you so much for these words – I love you my friend! Susan
Every word so very true! Beautiful spirit .
The true worth of a person is how they are remembered. Both of you are lucky to have known each other.
She was special and this is a great tribute!!!!!
Just beautiful to be remembered that way! Ericka and family be so proud of how people thought of your Mama. Please find comfort knowing she is in such a better place. Hugs and prayers..
Prayers and peace be with family and friends.